Monday, February 25, 2008

Jolie's Self Haircut

Well it finally happened. I was really hoping Jolie would never cut her own hair but she did. Early this morning she took the scissors into her own hands and starting cutting. I went into her bedroom to get her dressed and ready for the day when I found her hair all over the floor. For some strange reason she was walking around the room and cutting it at the same time. So it was everywhere. Of course I screamed and then I saw Jolie. I felt like I was in a funky dream and that there was no way she had just cut that much hair off. I had to put her in the shower to get all the cut hair out. Later in the day I took her get it fixed. Now all her pretty long hair is gone. Jolie likes it but I'm really sad.


BEFORE: This is the good side. The other side was much shorter.



AFTER: To make it even this was the longest it could go.

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

The Neverending Story
New Home Construction Update

Well, if there is anybody left out there who still bothers to check our blog (sorry about the extreme lack of posts,) I thought I could give a little update on what my life is about lately. (By the way, I think Amberly has pretty much put this blog on the back burner... maybe a few emails letting her know she should post more often would help.) Basically I am consumed by the construction of our new house. Now, this isn't meant in the normal sense of someone getting consumed when they are having a house built. I mean, that is my entire life right now. Let me give an abbreviated history of what I mean.

We first bought our lot, which is in a great neighborhood, and I proceeded to draw plans for our house. The intention was to build the house as owner/builder with me as the "general contractor" while subcontracting out almost all of the work. I got the plans approved and got bids from LOTS of contractors for the individual trades (framing, concrete, plumbing, etc) so that I could estimate the cost of construction. Well, things were still doing okay for contractors at the time, so the bids were pretty high. With that I got our construction loan stuff ready. As part of the construction loan process, we needed an appraiser to tell the bank how much our house would be worth when completed. This is when things started to go downhill. The appraisal came back way too low. I had two realtors look at it and they said it was artificially lower than it should be, since the appraiser didn't find much information on houses in the area that are as big as ours. Several have come and gone on the market since then that will help our future appraisal a lot, so I'm not worried about it coming in low again, but the fact remained that the bank could only loan us a much smaller amount than we were planning. This would require me to have to do a bunch of the work myself to save on labor costs. In the meantime, we would pay ourselves for our living costs out of our construction loan instead of paying more to some other contractor. So, I got started.

Long and tedious doesn't even begin to describe most of the work since then. I did all the foundation work and my dad helped me pour the footings. Then the impossible task of block laying began. Just to give you an idea, the house took a total of 32 cubes of block. A cube is the amount of blocks they fit on a pallet (roughly a 4-foot cube). This added up to about 2700 total blocks. That is quite a lot of block for one person to lay. The whole north side of the house had to have 5-foot deep footings, below the level of the basement slab. So I had to lay almost 5 feet of block down in that trench before even making it up to ground level, then continuing the block up for another 10 feet to the upper story level! In between all that block were 3 groutings (where you pump concrete down into the blocks, filling them all solid) and the basement slab pour. All of this concrete I had help with from my dad (what a lifesaver, even though I do blame him for talking me into this madness in the first place... just kidding, Dad.) Needless to say, I was a little tired of block and concrete by this time. So, leaving out the exciting details, I framed the basement, backfilled the front yard and the garage (totalling about 600 tons of dirt and 420 tons of bedding material for the garage,) and poured the garage slab with the help of my dad, my brother Shawn, and a guy in my ward. Then I began framing the upstairs floor, which is the stage I am almost done with now.

Since I started the house, the lasting effects of the building boom have finally died off, resulting in every contractor in the residential business scrambling for work. I have between 3 and 7 people showing up at the house daily looking for work, both subcontractors like plumbers or electricians, and laborers who got laid off from their last job for lack of work. All of this lack of work has REALLY made these guys competitive and dropped prices like crazy. Good news for me. You better believe I'm taking advantage of that fact. I only wish I was just starting the house now and I could have had all the work done up until now for pretty darn cheap. For any of you out there looking to move, this is a great time (at least in Arizona) to have a custom home built. So anyway, from this point I am finally going to sub things out, starting with the framing of the roof. I'm very excited to be able to watch someone else do all the work and see a crew slam through in a week what would take me a month or so. After the framing is complete, I will sub out several other trades, but leave some of the work for myself such as electrical and trim carpentry.

Sorry about the really long explanation, but I have so many people ask me about how the house is going, I thought this would help clear things up. (Plus, I kinda felt bad we haven't had a post for a couple months, we'll be better at that.)

Here's a quick photo history of the house construction:

A ridiculous amount of rebar went into the foundation. This section is for the retaining wall between the basement and the garage.
This is the north side of the house. It doesn't look like it, but if I get down in that trench, the top of the dirt is at my eye level.
A view from the back of the house. This is after the footings were poured and the stem wall block was laid up to the level of the basement slab.
A view from the front yard of the basement slab pour. Notice I say "basement" even though it's mostly above ground. It's considered a walk-out basement, because the street level is the height of the top story. So the front yard gets filled in and the "basement" opens up to the back yard. That's my dad and I along with a couple guys in the ward and the concrete pump truck driver. (That's the concrete pump hanging in the air.)
After most of the block is laid for the basement retaining walls.
Most of the basement framing complete. This has to be done in order to backfill against the retaining walls. The framing helps to brace up the walls against all that dirt. Notice the "stair-like" detail in the block. That will be the future ground level and the block popout serves as a brick ledge for a full brick veneer that will cover the exposed block. To the far right of the picture is the garage, which at this time was a 7-foot hole in the ground.
Save view as the last picture. This was during the backfilling process, bringing the front yard up to the level of the top story.
The backfill complete, I got the garage slab ready for concrete. Under that slab is a heavily-compacted 420 tons of bedding material, going down 7 feet. You can see the plywood floor over the basement in the background.
Finishing the garage slab. That's me running the power trowel and my dad on the far left.
First floor mostly framed. Unfortunately, I have been getting snowed out regularly.

A view of the back of the house. The house looks like a beast from the back. Too bad that's not how it looks from the front.

Monday, December 31, 2007

Picture Perfect
December 2007
Jolie Alexis Mecham
4 years

Bronson Owens Mecham
1 year

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Merry Christmas!!
On Christmas morning Ben and I had to wake the kids up at 7:30. They had a little cold the day before and felt like sleeping in. When we went to get Jolie out of bed, all I said was, "Santa came last night." I have never seen her jump out of bed so fast. Needless to say she was very excited.


Bronson is our little decorator. We put up a little tree for the kids to play with. He saw us decorating our real tree so he decided to help. He came up and put his toy car in the tree and since then he puts anything and everything on the little tree (candy canes, bows, tinsel, or any small toy).


The Fab Four


Trey (son of Del & Tina), Gus (son of Brain & Nicole), Bronson (our son), & Kellen (son of Shawn & Colette)

All of these Boyz were born in 2006 and are cousins on the Mecham side.




So we turned the chair around to have the boyz look over it....but they weren't too excited about that. Bronson was deciding what he should do. First he looked at Kellen and noticed him crying --

Then he looked over at Trey and noticed he was crying too --



So he decided to follow along. Meanwhile Gus is in the back going, "What is wrong with these guys?!?"




After a round of candy canes and Uncle Shawn beating himself up in the background, the boyz were smiling for more pictures.





During all the picture taking, Ben helped fix the Green Machine so Max could take Jolie around the block for a ride. It was too bad shortly later the seat on the Green Machine broke off.






Jolie and Zane at dinner time.

We love spending time with the Mecham Family. It is always good to see everyone and make lasting memories. You all mean so much to us.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Joy School Nativity Play

Jolie posing as an angel.

Amber, Jolie, Bryant, Maddie, Jackson, and Hunter at the end of the play. It was so funny to watch the kids do their little presentation. Half the costumes fell off, the inn keeper wouldn't answer the door, and little babies (Bronson & Emily) wanted to be in the action. All the parents were cracking up.

Jolie and Maddie looking so cute.

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

The Mecham House is Done!!
(that is -- the gingerbread house)
back view

front view

side view


top view

I know, I know it's not the real house but at least one house got done this year. Amberly did the frosting and Jolie put the candies on. It was a long process but we had a lot of fun making it.

Friday, December 14, 2007

Let it Snow! Let it Snow! Let it Snow!




Snow is magical in many different ways. It will be bitter cold outside, the ground is frozen, and most trees have lost their leaves. The wind stops blowing as the clouds roll in and then a wonderful thing happens. The snow drifts in and fills your body with warmth and joy. Our kids cannot control their smiles. As they run outside in whatever clothes they have on with open mouths trying to catch snowflakes on their tongue. All they want to do is eat the snow. Forgetting how cold it really is our fingers and noses turn red as can be. Bronson didn't care how cold he was. He could play in the snow all day if we let him. So we started the fire place and made some hot chocolate to warm up and then headed back outside for some more snow fun.

Friday, December 07, 2007

Thanksgiving


This year we only had Thanksgiving with the Mecham Family. The festivities took place at the traditional location -- Brian and Nicole Mason's house in Mesa. That's probably because their house is the biggest and nicest of all of ours. (Hmm, I wonder who could have built such a fine home?...) Anyway, it was a lot of fun and the cousins couldn't get enough of each other.
Bronson and Kellen (Shawn and Colette's boy) took turns riding the bus/scooter/car/whatever that thing is.


Kellen is such a photogenic ham it's too hard to resist snapping some pictures of him at his best.

Suddenly we couldn't find Jolie anywhere and after a while we found her in a bedroom watching a movie with her cousin Bridger (Holly and Jared's boy.) Check out the identical cheesy smiles!

Dad and Jen carving the turkey while Jared monitors the progress.

As any man will tell you, that turkey tryptophan hits us the hardest (yeah, that's it...,) making it pretty much impossible to participate in any cleanup after a Thanksgiving dinner. Why can't the women understand this?

Thanks to the Masons for footing the gas bill to heat up their spa in November, the cousins got to take a dip! But nothing stopped them from testing out the frigid water in the pool. Yikes!

From left to right (parents in parentheses): Chance (Jen & Cory), Tyler (Holly & Jared), Jolie (us), Max (Nicole and Brian), Zane (Nicole and Brian), Brandon (Holly & Jared), and Jake (Nicole and Brian).

Zane, Jolie, and Chance taking a train ride down the slide!

The Girls: Amberly, Nicole, Holly, Jen, and Colette.

Disneyland


Right before Thanksgiving we spontaneously decided to drop everything and head for Disneyland. We had some free tickets to the park, so that helped keep it short and cheap. We dressed the kids up in their Halloween costumes and got an entire lifetime's worth of coos and giggles from passersby. After a while it got a little irritating, but I have to say, we have some cute kids! Disneyland just decorated everything for Christmas, so it's our favorite time to go. Plus, we figured it wouldn't be too packed. Wrong. It's amazing the people that cram into that place. Even in the "off season" it was way too crowded for my liking. And with the ever-impatient Bronson, waiting in lines for more than 30 seconds was trying. We waited in line for almost an hour at the Haunted Mansion with people around us in the line helping to entertain the little guy. Then, we were told the ride was having technical difficulties and they were shutting it down! Nevertheless, we had an enjoyable time and the Christmas theme at the park is really amazing.


Jolie went to a class to learn to be a princess (as if she didn't already have a huge princess complex.) She had an absolute blast.

We couldn't keep the cast members away from Squirt!

If you ever want your kids to get special attention at Disneyland, make sure you dress them up!

Princess Jolie at her coronation. The transformation to a real princess is complete. Now Jolie thinks she has special privileges because she's a real princess. Oh well, gotta let girls be girls every once in a while!

A tired and grumpy Bronson (a.k.a. Squirt) in the Haunted Mansion line.

This is really what Disneyland was about for me. Seeing my girls happy.

Newport Beach

And of course what is a trip to California without a visit to the beach? We made a quick detour on the way home and we were seriously there 15 minutes. It's too bad because Bronson just lit up in amazement at all the sand he could play in. Of course, we didn't let him -- we wouldn't have been able to tear him away! The beach is definitely at the top of our list for upcoming vacations.

Jolie was convinced there were secret things buried in the sand like gold and magic shells. I swear, the poor kid has no imagination!

Bronson touching the ocean for the first time. I didn't dare put him down.